đ WEEK 2
Write this down…
Solutions change. The problem worth solving rarely does.

đ Rule No. 2 âFall in love with the problem, not the solution.
Now that you’ve identified your customer’s real problem, let me challenge you with a question that requires and little ego check. Ask yourself…
Are we defending our solutionâŚor are we actually solving our customerâs real need?
â The Trap Smart Founders Fall Into
The smarter the founder, the more dangerous the trap.
Intelligent people are excellent at building compelling arguments. They can rationalize a product direction with logic that sounds airtight. They can explain why the market needs what they’ve built. They can find evidence to support almost any conclusion they’ve already reached.
This is exactly the problem.
Iâve been there. You invest capital. You commit payroll. You rally your team. And once you do, itâs human nature to protect what youâve built. But protecting your idea and solving the right problem arenât the same thing. If you find yourself explaining to your team why customers should care, instead of proving that they already do, thatâs a warning sign.
In his book, The Mom Test, Rob Fitzpatrick wrote clearly about what happens when entrepreneurs ask the wrong questions. They talk to potential customers and hear what they want to hear. The customer is polite. The founder is encouraged. And the product gets built on a foundation of misread signals.
âYour idea is amazing. Your customer just doesnât care.â
The discipline is to stay attached to the problem, not the solution you’ve already invented. That means asking customers about their lives, their frustrations, their workarounds â not about whether they’d buy what you’re about to pitch them.
One of our core principles at The Executives Institute reflects this directly: Fall in love with the problem, not the solution. It is deceptively simple advice. It is also among the hardest to actually practice.
The solution will change. The problem, if it’s real, won’t.

Rule No. 2 summary:
Solutions come and go, but a deep understanding of the real problem creates lasting value. Focus on the true needs and challenges of your customersânot your preconceived ideas. By anchoring yourself to the problem, you remain flexible, innovative, and better positioned to deliver meaningful solutions.
As business owners, we donât get paid for being right about our ideas. We get paid for solving problems that matter. Donât ask customers if they like your idea. Watch what they actually do about the problem. If the pain is real, theyâre already trying to solve itâand thatâs where the real opportunity is.
Itâs Rule No. 2 for a reason. First, you commit to solving something real. Then you guard yourself against ego. This rule keeps you customer-centered instead of ego-driven. It forces you to keep listening, keep validating, and stay willing to pivotâno matter how much youâve already invested.

The Executives Institute Rule No. 2 âFall in love with the problem, not the solution.
Recommended reading:The Mom Test by Rob Fitzpatrick
The Mom Test by Rob Fitzpatrick is a short, tactical guide to asking better questions and getting honest, useful feedback when talking to customers. The central premise is simple: you canât trust peopleâespecially your momâto tell you the truth if your questions are flawed.
Fitzpatrick teaches entrepreneurs how to avoid biased feedback by asking about past behaviors rather than opinions or hypotheticals. Instead of asking, âWould you use this?â, you learn to ask, âHow have you solved this in the past?â The goal is to uncover real pain points, not polite compliments.
This book is a must-read for anyone building products, launching a business, or trying to truly understand their audience. It emphasizes listening over pitching and relentlessly testing assumptions.
The Ledger is your working companion to The Executives Institute âwhether you follow The Weekly Edge or participate in a 10K Leaders study group. This is where discipline takes shape âwhere the priorities that drive your business are identified, challenged, and acted on. Print each week as you go, or collect the hardcover Ledger each year, with a $100 contribution to the Institute. Over time, each annual Ledger becomes a record of your decisions, your lessons, and the growth of your organization.
The Institute teaches. The Ledger records.
Congratulations on sticking around for Week 2.
đ WEEK 3 đ Rule No. 6 âYour first idea is rarely your best is next.