
Rule No. 47 summary:
If your team is stuck, underperforming, or spinning its wheels, stop looking around for excusesâstart looking up.
When a team is underperforming, the root cause usually isnât âdown there.â Itâs at the top. Culture, clarity, accountabilityâthese flow from leadership. If somethingâs stuck, stalled, or sideways, odds are high that the real issue starts with the leader. Not the team. Not the market. You.
Strong leadership fixes dysfunction. Weak leadership fuels it.
The real choke point is almost always at the top. Leadership isnât just a title; itâs the engine that drivesâor grinds to a haltâthe entire organization. You want accountability? Start by holding yourself accountable. You want alignment? Stop tolerating dysfunction and model clarity. The bottleneck isnât in the middle or the trenches. Itâs right where the buck stops: with you. This rule pulls no punches because leadership demands brutal honesty, starting with yourself.
If youâve fought battles that became lessons â this is where we collect them.
The insight you share might be the turning point someone else is waiting for.

đ Recommended Reading
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
by Patrick Lencioni
âThe leader must confront the dysfunction, or it will never be resolved.ââ Patrick Lencioni
đ ď¸ WE ARE STILL BUILDING THIS RULE. CHECK BACK
đ§ THIS RULE HELPS US WITH
- Identifying the real source of organizational gridlock
- Owning leadershipâs role in team underperformance
- Removing blame culture from the middle and bottom
- Restoring alignment, clarity, and accountability
- Building healthier teams through example, not edict
đ ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS: Use this section and these prompts throughout The Institute to challenge assumptions, surface blind spots, and drive clearer thinking.
Before you fix the team, look in the mirror. Leadership drives dysfunctionâor cures it.
What culture am I really modelingâone of responsibility or excuse-making?
âExample: When mistakes happen, do you take ownership publicly? Or subtly point fingers down the ladder?
Where have I tolerated dysfunction because confronting it felt uncomfortable?
âExample: Youâve watched two team members avoid collaboration for months, but havenât intervened. Thatâs not on themâitâs on you.
Do my people lack clarity because Iâve failed to set it?
âExample: If youâre frustrated by a lack of accountability, ask whether your expectations were vague or inconsistent.
đď¸EXECUTIVE DISCUSSION PROMPT: Use the prompt below to spark reflection, challenge assumptions, and bring to light the shifts your leadership team or peer group might need to make next.
The truth is harsh, but necessary: leadership behavior is contagiousâfor better or worse.
In your next leadership team meeting, ask:

What recurring issue keeps showing up across departments, and how might we be the ones enabling itâintentionally or not?
Push past surface blame. Get to the habits, blind spots, or avoidance patterns in the leadership team that might be holding everyone else back.
“If you could get all the people in an organization rowing in the same direction, you could dominate any industry⌠but you wonâtâunless the leader confronts the dysfunction.” â Patrick Lencioni, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
This Rule isnât finishedâand it never will be. Business changes, leaders learn, and our Members keep sharpening the edges with real stories and hard-won lessons. What you see here is todayâs version. Tomorrowâs will be better, clearer, and backed by more lived experience.
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